I enjoy social networking. It's like a window into the lives of my family, friends, and colleagues. While it's not a substitute for actual contact, it's a great way to show support and stay in touch. Admittedly, I try to approach one thing about this whole social networking process with a bit of caution due to it's ambiguous nature. I'm cautious of the "like" in Facebook or the +1 in GooglePlus because my intentions can be easily misinterpreted. If I "like" something does it mean I like it, enjoy it, agree with it or simply that I'm showing support for whomever posted it. Those are all very different intentions. If it is a political, religious, or somehow otherwise emotionally charged post, "liking" it can cause unintentional conflict.
I "liked" a photograph. Four hours later my friend associated this photograph with a religious post. It appeared as if I "liked" the post. I honestly don't know how that happened. I do know I was forced to defend my religious views that aren't on my profile for a reason. Unfortunately, I can't hide that part of who I am from childhood friends. I was attacked over a "like" on Facebook. It was a misunderstanding. Everyone removed their own posts, mail, e-Mail, and voice-mail.
In my case, it was an honest mistake. What about careless "likes" or cases where people genuinely intended on "liking" the post. Should the intent of the "like" be taken into consideration. I "liked" it to support my friend. I "liked" it to support the victims in the post. I "liked" it because I hope they find the little girl. I "liked" it to support cancer research. I "liked" it because I hope Jane gets well soon. Personally, I "like" the positive posts. If I intend upon showing support or giving my condolences, I'll comment. I find clarity is best.
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